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Joe Stanganelli Answers You, #1

Today’s post is the first in what I expect to be a series devoted to answering some of my readers’ E-Mail to me.

(Note that my Disclaimers in my first post and on my Notices page are still in full force. The following is neither legal advice nor financial advice – and is not intended as such. An attorney-client relationship is neither created nor intended in this and other blog posts. I merely present the below for entertainment and educational purposes for friends and clients.)

WHEN GOD CLOSES A DOOR…

This first E-Mail comes from Geri, who runs a law firm marketing company. Geri has been very kind in offering me advice, and here is one such piece of it.

is there a way you can make your hyperlinks open another window rather than take you away from your site? i had to use my back button to get back to your site. usability standards consider hyperlinks that take you away from the original site to result in people reading less. . .especially if they then use another hyperlink in the site you’ve taken them to. (does that make any sense?)

Dear Geri,

That definitely does make sense. Wordpress has been frustrating at times to figure out. Additionally, it has been years since I’ve done any HTML programming, so I have only recently picked it up again. I appreciate my readers bearing with me as I strive to make and keep this blog excellent.

That said, I have recently figured out how to make my links open in a new window. All of the links on the Blogroll should now open in a new window, and all links included in future entries should do so as well. The next time I update the About page, I will similarly update the links within it. Links in blog posts prior to this one have not been updated to include this feature (at least, not yet).

Thanks for your feedback. I appreciate it – and continue to invite my readers to contact me.

- Joe Stanganelli, Esq.

ETERNAL LIFE (INSURANCE) AND PURITY

The next correspondence I address comes from a new friend of mine, Richard. Richard works in the financial services industry. In response to my remarks on Suze Orman’s estate plan, Richard writes (over the course of multiple E-Mails):

All life insurance is term insurance. Take a look at those whole, universal, and variable policies, there is a section regarding the cost of either the Annual Renewable TERM or Decreasing TERM insurance that the company pays for.

All life insurance falls under those 2 categories. Yes ART can have a level period, but they all boil down to one of those 2.

It’s that one bone in my body that must have everything right.

Dear Richard,

Not being someone who is a life insurance expert (I deal with it only as it pertains to estate planning), I defer to the wisdom of those who are when it comes to life insurance definitions and the like. I haven’t discussed the above with others who know more about life insurance than I do because whether you are technically correct or not is irrelevant for my purposes (i.e., offering an estate planning perspective); I only meant “term insurance” in the “pure” sense, i.e., for a specifically enumerated, limited period of time, as a pure insurance tool (a.k.a. the sense just about everybody usually means when they use the term “term insurance”).

One of the ultimate purposes (albeit not the only one) of estate planning is to pass on the greatest amount of wealth possible to those you care about. I want to emphasize that I am looking at this strictly from an estate planning point of view – and when it comes to estate planning, pure term insurance is usually not as useful as those “impure term” policies.

I am aware that some “pure term” policies can offer better yields than whole, universal, or variable policies. Life insurance, after all, pays out when – and if – you die during the policy period. If your loved one has a “pure” term insurance policy on your life, and you’re still alive when it runs out, then it was useless from the estate planning viewpoint; it passed on zero wealth to said loved one. (True, some term insurance policies, such as an ART, are renewable, but often the premiums go up each year.)

In any case, thank you for educating me more about life insurance.

- Joe Stanganelli, Esq.

ARBITRARY-PRECISION

Next we have a comment from “SaxophoneMan” in response to my January 16 post. Saxophone Man writes:

“The law will arbitrarily decide who gets your assets” if you don’t have a will? That is not actually true. The law of intestacy is actually designed to prevent the arbitrary allocation of assets in the absence of a will. Rather, intestacy rules seek to provide order in the allocation of the estate. While such allocation may not be the deceased’s preference, it is far from arbitrary.

Dear SaxophoneMan,

I realize that one of the many dictionary definitions of the word “arbitrary” is: “established by a court or judge rather than by a specific law or statute.” That is not how I use the word here.

Rather, I use the word in accordance with the following, alternative definition: “based on preference, bias, prejudice, or convenience rather than on reason or fact.”

As a Massachusetts attorney, I am well aware of the existence of Mass.Gen.Laws ch. 190 (the Massachusetts intestacy laws). To say that the intestacy laws were “designed to prevent the arbitrary allocation of assets” is not really correct. While they may have been designed to prevent probate judges themselves from divvying up estate assets arbitrarily, that does not make the intestacy laws any less arbitrary themselves.

In writing and enacting the intestacy laws, the legislature has arbitrarily decided for you the succession of your estate assets without a valid will in force. You yourself acknowledge that “such allocation may not be the deceased’s preference.” It is hard to imagine how that is something other than arbitrary.

After all, what is the basis for “such allocation”? Why, nothing more than the discretion of a group of state legislators huddled around a consanguinity chart! Yes, blood relations can be definitively shown and proven (and are therefore more convenient from a legal perspective), but that doesn’t change the fact that they make for no less arbitrary a standard than anything else that is not the deceased’s wishes.

Add the spousal elective share into the mix, and things become even more wild. As I stated in an earlier post, one of the common goals of estate planning for a couple is to avoid estate taxes until the second death (i.e., the death of the surviving spouse). This is because all estate taxes can be avoided by way of the marital deduction (assuming that the decedent is married to a United States citizen) and the Unified Credit (i.e., the $2,000,000 estate tax exemption). The logical thing for the married decedent-to-be with a greater than $2,000,000 estate is to leave $2,000,000 to the kids (or whomever s/he wishes), and the rest to his/her spouse (and/or a qualified 501(c)(3) charity to take advantage of the Qualified Charitable Deduction).

When a married person with children dies without a will in Massachusetts, the spouse gets half of their estate and the children get the other half. Even if we set aside personal circumstances that would make this a ridiculous distribution, if the decedent’s estate exceeds $4,000,000, then this is a wholly illogical distribution for tax purposes; the portion of the children’s half that exceeds $2,000,000 would be subject to federal estate tax.

(This is even setting aside the fact that the Massachusetts state estate tax exemption is less than that of the federal estate tax exemption.)

There are many, many more cases where the intestate statutes just quite clearly fail to dispose of assets in the best possible manner – let alone succeed at indicating that they are anything other than arbitrary distinctions.

While the laws of intestacy, spousal shares, and the like do serve their purpose of providing a default (so that probate judges aren’t just left to wing it), it is hard to argue that the way they were written is anything other than arbitrary. What is more, the certainty of the intestate laws pale in comparison to the certainty a well-written will provides.

Thanks for your comment.

- Joe Stanganelli, Esq.

IN OTHER NEWS

Beacon Hill Law is on its way to being officially open for business. I have but about half a dozen forms left to fill out, plus the construction of the website. Please keep visiting this blog for updates – and don’t hesitate to contact me if you have any feedback or if you think there is something I can do for you.

- Joe Stanganelli, Esq.

Annual Gift Tax Exclusion Now $13,000

It’s a new year, and with a new year can come new developments.

Many new developments may have happened in your life in the past year or so; I know that that is true for me.

One of these events is my having gained about 9 pounds and a couple of inches on my waistline. This has led me to one my New Year’s Resolutions: Be Healthier. To accomplish this, I have joined an affordable gym, am working out more often, and am at least trying to eat less junk food (the soda I am drinking right now notwithstanding).

Many other significant things and events (more significant than gaining 9 pounds, even) have happened in my life within the past year or two. Because of this, another one of my New Year’s Resolutions is to write a new will for myself.

Why am I writing a new will for myself? After all, I am currently young, unmarried, childless, relatively healthy, and lacking in substantial wealth.

The fact of the matter is that most everybody probably *should* have a will. As I mentioned in a blog post earlier this month, when a person dies without a will, that is known as intestacy. Generally, intestacy is not a particularly good thing because it means the following:

  • The law will arbitrarily decide who gets your assets, regardless of your actual wishes and if you made those wishes known to anyone.
  • The court, in a potentially lengthy and sometimes more expensive process, will decide who is entrusted to administer your estate (again, regardless of what your wishes may have been).
  • The person who is selected to administer your estate will lack certain powers that your will could easily have provided htem.
  • Intestacy often means uncertainty, especially for your loved ones.

For my own part, I am writing my will:

  • …to make sure that particular assets of mine go to those who will properly appreciate them.
  • …to designate an executor of my estate so the court doesn’t designate somebody who I don’t trust with this job.
  • …to make sure my executor can start his or her job as soon as my will is admitted to probate (without a special provision in a will for this, the process can take weeks longer before the executor can begin his or her job).
  • …to grant my executor certain powers so he or she can do what is necessary to settle my estate — without having to run to the court, hat in hand, to get permission.
  • …to provide certainty for my loved ones.

It is a good idea to have an attorney review your estate plan whenever you have new developments in your life, such as:

  • Marriage
  • Divorce
  • Birth of a child or grandchild
  • Death of spouse, child, or parent
  • Death of someone named in your current will
  • Being diagnosed with a potentially terminal illness
  • Coming into a windfall of money/assets (such as an inheritance, a prize, gambling winngs, etc.)
  • You or your family taking on substantial debt
  • Giving someone a substantial gift
  • Taking on a new job that pays a great deal more
  • Owning real estate
  • Owning a business
  • Owning a pet or other animal

The above is not an exhaustive list, but should give you some clue as to when an estate plan is due for a review. Additionally, anyone with a net worth in excess of $2 million has no excuse to not have an updated estate plan in place.

Additionally, it is a good idea to have an attorney review your estate plan about every two to five years. If it has been more than two years since your most recent estate plan review, strongly consider contacting an attorney who can meet your estate planning needs today.

MORE NEW YEAR NEWS

Now that we’re well into 2009, it’s important for clients and potential clients to realize how new tax laws impact their estate plans.

For starters, the annual gift tax exclusion has been increased to $13,000. The obvious implication of this is that an individual can now give up to $13,000 per donee per year tax-free. Additonally, these gifts can be split with one’s spouse – with the spouse’s consent – for a maximum of $26,000. Indeed, some married couples make their annual gifts as early in the calendar year as possible – to ensure that both spouses are alive at the time of the gifts (after all, a deceased spouse cannot consent).

Because of this, 2009 is a great time to review your trust plan and/or giving program (especially if it has been more than two years since your most recent estate plan review), so as to continue to maximize the use of lifetime gifting strategies. Additionally, all good trust plans, giving programs, and estate plans afford some degree of flexibility – not only to account for a client’s changing plans, priorities, and life developments, but also changes to applicable laws. Contact an attorney for your estate planning needs today.

- Joe Stanganelli, Esq.

Joe Stanganelli’s 2009 Action Plan for Suze Orman

A drop of water landed directly in my eye yesterday.

I was walking down School Street in Boston when it happened. It must have dripped off a building ledge. It was pretty gross.It reminded me that I need more eye drops, so I went to CVS. While shopping, I flipped through a copy of Suze Orman’s new book, Suze Orman’s 2009 Action Plan (you can download a free PDF version of the book until January 19, 2009, online here courtesy of Oprah.com).

(Suze Orman, for those of you who live under a rock, is the woman on TV who yells at people for spending too much money.)

I saw, as I flipped through the book near the pharmacist’s counter, that Suze Orman recommends to her readers that, in almost all cases, they opt for term life insurance over any other kind of life insurance.

To me, this is pretty ridiculous.

LIFE INSURANCE: BING!

When I think of a life insurance agent, I think of Ned Ryerson, the ineffectual insurance salesman from the movie Groundhog Day. As grating as old “Ned the Head” may be, however, non-term life insurance is often a key component of a good estate plan.

Obviously, a young, healthy, single person with no dependents most likely has little need for any kind of life insurance. Indeed, because of the very nature of life insurance, the longer you can wait to get it, the better.

Nonetheless, the unexpected does happen; that is why people have estate plans.

One obvious benefit of whole, universal or a similar life insurance plan is to maximize the transfer of wealth tax-free. Life insurance is usually not subject to estate taxes when it pays out. Thus, a substantial policy is often a great way to transfer wealth.

Additionally, estate liquidity can be a major issue in estates – especially those that are just barely large enough to be subject to estate tax. Estate representatives sometimes have to sell the family home, the family business, and other valuable and/or sentimental assets to pay estate taxes that are due. With a sufficient life insurance policy in place, the problem is easily solved; the taxes can be paid with the life insurance money without having to sell the estate’s major assets.

Life insurance is also commonly used in business succession plans, wherein the business partners are designated the beneficiaries, and then use that money to buy the decedent’s share of the business back from the spouse, children, or whomever received the business in the will.

Life insurance is not for everybody, and there are many different types of life insurance that can be used for many different things. Life insurance has a great many uses for estate planning (but term life insurance – while it has its uses – can tend to be of limited utility for estate planning needs). For more information on this topic, you should contact a competent attorney, CPA, CFP, or similar, neutral professional who won’t be compensated when you purchase a life insurance policy (unlike an insurance agent).

But not Suze Orman. At least, not on this issue.

(In all seriousness, I admire Suze Orman. She started off as a waitress living in a van and is now a multimillion-dollar success. To me, she is a living Horatio Alger story and an embodiment of the American Dream, and has earned my respect.)

Speaking of Suze Orman, apparently her own financial concerns could in fact be solved with life insurance and other estate planning mechanisms.

DOCTOR, HEAL THYSELF

According to an interview with The New York Times, Suze Orman is concerned about losing lots of money to estate taxes. More specifically, according to the interview, she is in a committed same-sex relationship with another wealthy individual (her producer). She is concerned that, because she and her partner cannot legally be married, they cannot make use of the marital deduction – and therefore a substantial portion of their substantial estates will be lost to estate taxes.

This presents an important, burgeoning issue in the estate planning field: GLBT planning. Neither the federal government nor any other jurisdiction in the United States (save Massachusetts) recognizes same-sex marriages (although some states have other, similar mechanisms, such as civil unions). This presents an additional challenge when it comes to estate planning for people in committed same-sex relationships. Typically, because of the marital deduction (i.e., the mechanism by which you can give things to your spouse tax-free), one common goal of estate planning is to reduce or eliminate estate taxes at the second death – because upon the first death between the married couple, the decedent spouse has presumably left everything (save for their initial $2,000,000 estate tax exemption) or most everything to their surviving spouse, tax-free. For couples who cannot enter into a marriage recognized by current federal law, like Suze Orman and her female producer, this is not an option.

First and foremost, Suze and her partner could each benefit from substantial life insurance policies, respectively (and it’s not like they can’t afford it, either; according to the same interview, Suze Orman’s liquid net worth is in the $25,000,000 neighborhood). This policy easily turns a few million dollars into several million dollars once it pays out. Furthermore, the life insurance payouts would be tax-free. This could easily make up for the loss to estate taxes.

Furthermore, Suze and her partner would each benefit from irrevocable living trusts set up for their partner’s benefit, set up to not pay out until the first death between them. This is especially ironic because Suze recommends to her readers in her 2009 Action Plan that they set up revocable living trusts. The problem with revocable living trusts is they are still subject to taxation as part of the grantor’s estate; because of their revocability, the grantor is still deemed to “control them,” and therefore own them as part of her estate.

“ACTION” ESTATE PLAN FOR SUZE ORMAN

Because Suze Orman is a good sport (I am assuming), I am going to give her some fun, free “legal advice” (I put “legal advice” in quotation marks so nobody can sue me later; this is all rhetorical and hypothetical, and not intended or presented as actual advice forming an attorney-client relationship. Please see the Notices Page for more information). Based upon the limited information I have, with all other things being equal, I would advise Suze to and her partner to each do the following:

  • Set up irrevocable living trusts wherein:
    • The present interest income beneficiary is some favorite 501(c)(3) charity (say, PBS – an entity that Suze Orman has done a lot fundraising for). In other words, all of the income that the money in the trust earns goes to this charity. Suze, this is a great option for you. This not only avoids estate taxes later by foregoing all control between the two of you in your lifetime, but has additional tax benefits because the money is going to a 501(c)(3) organization – and is therefore subject to the charitable deduction.
    • Upon the death of the trust grantor, the money will be paid out to your life partner.
  • Set up life insurance trusts for each other’s respective benefit. Take on life insurance policies for each other’s benefits (NOT TERM! That is, unless one of you is expecting to shuffle off this mortal coil soon), and designate the beneficiary of the policy to be the trustee of the life insurance trust benefiting your partner.
  • (EDIT: For this to work, the beneficiary would have to be the owner of the policy.  Life insurance will not be free from estate taxation if the owner retains any incidences of ownership, such as being able to change the beneficiary.)
  • Set up a Unified Credit Trust in your will to make use of your $3,500,000 estate tax exemption (note: $3.5 million is only the estate tax exemption amount for 2009; this amount is subject to change after 2009).
  • Consult a knowledgeable attorney today about other aspects of your estate plan.

And Suze, if you’re reading this and this information helps, feel free to mention my blog on your show.

- Joe Stanganelli, Esq.

Like an Altar; Get It?

At some point when I was in law school, I had a realization.

STANGANELLI’S FIRST LAW OF ECONOMICS

No matter the state of the economy – and how good or bad things may be – someone is getting rich somewhere.

I studied historical economic markets. Someone, somewhere, is always making money on a rising stock (or, in the case of a short sell, a falling stock). Some business is always performing swiftly. There were people who amassed large fortunes even in the Great Depression.

(Speaking of the Great Depression, and in the spirit of continuing to include interesting recipes on this blog (even though it’s a law blog), I found this recipe for Depression Cake online. Depression Cake was a common dessert during the Great Depression; most recipes do not use sugar, milk, or eggs, because they were scarce and expensive during the Great Depression. Anyway, try it out. Who knows? With the economic climate these days, it may become popular again.)

I also read cases – and saw a glimpse of the amount of litigation there is in the country.

STANGANELLI’S SECOND LAW OF ECONOMICS

Where Party A and Party B are separate entities in a given set of economic circumstances, three outcomes are possible: 1.) A wins, B loses.

2.) B wins, A loses.

3.) C – the assortment of attorneys for Parties A and B – wins.

Even among attorneys, however, the effects of economic collapse are felt. Presently, I know a lot of lawyers who are actually not faring so well right now. Many are out of work, and most others have seen their practices want for business. Additionally, a recent American Bar Association survey indicates that 69% of attorneys in the United States report that they will be negatively impacted by the recession – with a whopping 19% expecting to lose their jobs entirely.

Nonetheless, in the decaying fields of economic downturn, there are patches to be found where the grass is greener.

C SOMETIMES WINS

The American Bar Association puts out a monthly publication known as the ABA Journal. This month’s issue (billed on the cover as a “SPECIAL RECESSION ISSUE”) features a piece about Eleanor Breitel Alter, who heads up her law firm’s family and matrimonial law department (in other – more relevant –
words, she’s a divorce lawyer).

While bankers and lawyers and others pinch pennies, Ms. Alter finds her divorce practice to be doing just fine, thank you. “Moneyed spouses” whose jobs and/or stock have “gone to the devil” – as Ms. Alter puts it – are flocking to get divorced – when they might otherwise have waited – in an attempt to limit a court’s determination of their earning power. Additionally, people who are already divorced are bombarding Ms. Alter’s office with requests to get a permanent divorce order or separation agreement changed – in light of the economically bleak times.

Aside from the intellectually droll revelry to be had in observing Ms. Alter’s circumstances (i.e., a successful divorce attorney whose surname is a homonym for the sacred table at which her clients once wed) (get it?), it is clear from the article that, as the economy changes, people are making changes in their own lives that impact their assets and their families.

CHANGE

This leads me, albeit somewhat circuitously, to the topic of estate planning.

Anytime you marry, remarry, divorce, annul, or otherwise change your marital status, your estate plan may be dramatically impacted.

For starters (and I am going to type in all caps now to emphasize the drama of this point): MARRIAGE ALMOST ALWAYS VOIDS YOUR WILL.

When you marry, with rare exception, any will that you have becomes null and void. Once this happens, you need a new will unless you want your estate plan to be governed by intestacy.

INTESTACY

Intestacy is a fancy lawyer word for “the government gets to decide who gets your stuff, regardless of your wishes.” Many, many trees have been killed in publishing the complex laws that dictate how an estate is distributed in intestacy. And regardless of how it turns out, the lawyer (“C”) will definitely win.

(Intestacy can be especially distasteful when a person dies with no next-of-kin remaining. If this happens in Massachusetts, for example, the deceased’s property goes to the state government.)

Intestacy, quite obviously, is usually a bad idea. The advice I would typically give to a client is to pony up the dough to fix up a will now so that his/her loved ones don’t have to deal with a probably more complex (and probably more expensive) probate process later.

“YOU’RE DEAD TO ME!”

Divorce does not a void a will, but it does treat the divorced spouse as being already dead. This means that, when a court interprets your will, they will totally ignore anything that mentions the spouse you divorced. This probably seems like a good thing.

The problem arises, however, when alternative arrangements are not made. Let’s look at a basic example. Jack has a simple will that leaves everything to his wife, Jill, and names Jill as his executrix. A year later, Jack and Jill divorce. Several years after that, Jack dies – without ever having updated his estate plan. Now, the court will distribute all of Jack’s property will be via intestacy. Additionally, because no executor/executrix has been appointed (remember that Jill is treated as predeceased!), probate may be delayed because of the process of appointing an appropriate administrator for Jack’s estate. Time is money, and probate delays can be costly. This is not a good thing (except for “C”).

With rising divorce rates among society’s better heeled, estate plans will be impacted across the board. Naturally, if you are divorced, or considering getting married or divorced, contact an estate planning attorney to review your estate plan. Your estate planning attorney can help you make sure that your assets are distributed according to your wishes – no matter what happens.

JOKE OF THE DAY: How to Get Rich

A young man asked an old rich man how he made his money.

The old man leaned back in his chair with a hefty sigh and replied, “Well, my boy, it was 1932 – in the middle of the Great Depression. I was down to my last nickel.”

“I invested that nickel in an apple. I spent the entire day polishing that apple until it shined like never before. Then, at the end of the day, I sold that apple for ten cents.”

“The next morning, I invested those ten cents in two apples. I spent the entire day polishing them and sold them at 5:00pm for 20 cents. I continued this system for a week, by the end of which I’d accumulated a fortune of $25.60.”

“Then my wife’s father died and left us two million dollars.”

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